Mrs Mary Laidlaw (May)
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Mary
(Innerleithen)
Peacefully at Aaron House Care Home on 16th July 2024. Mary (May), beloved wife of the late Stanley, much loved mum to Christine and Craig. Loving nana to Rebekah, Ryan and Harrison and great nana to Mia. Service at Borders Crematorium, Melrose on Wednesday 7th August at 4pm. All friends are respectfully invited, family flowers only please.
Cremation Service
Location
Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA
Date & Time
4:00pm Wed 7th Aug 2024
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