Mr Thomas Whitehead
Funeral Service
Location
Burgh Hall, Peebles
Date & Time
10:30am Tue 16th Apr 2024
Burial Service
Location
Peebles Cemetery
Date & Time
11:30am Tue 16th Apr 2024
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Condolences
Marisa wrote
5th Apr 2024
Dear Lauren and Family, Though our time together was brief, the time we spent in Saigon was so incredibly special. I think of all of our friends around the globe often and am so grateful for knowing each of you. I am heartbroken to hear of the news of Thomas passing. We send our deepest condolences. May his memory bring you some comfort as you navigate this terrible tragedy and deep grief. I know there are no words that can take away the pain you are experiencing and I am truly sorry for your loss. Love, Marisa, Tim, Conrad & Simone
Melissa, kim, Mason & JaeLinh wrote
5th Apr 2024
“LIKE A BIRD SINGING IN THE RAIN, LET LOVE AND MEMORIES SURVIVE IN A TIME OF SORROW”. For Thomas. ❤️
Attending a funeral FAQs
What should I wear?
We normally associate wearing black with going to a funeral. But it is increasingly typical for families to express a preferred dress code. Our advice is to look out for information from the family in a notice published either in newspapers, online or in the funeral director window to advise you of their preference.
How long does a service last?
Typically a service in most churches or crematoria lasts around 20-30 minutes. A formal mass may take a little longer and we would expect this to be nearer an hour. Finally, burials can vary in length as they are weather dependent.
Where should I sit?
Family and close friends typically reserve the first couple of rows in a service. We recommend sitting nearer the front than the back of a service space in order to support the family and enabling late arrivals to discreetly fill back rows.
Where should I send flowers?
Often a family will express a preference for flowers - or charity donations in lieu of flowers. We recommend you keep an eye on notices posted in newspapers, or online or in the funeral director window so you are able to follow their wishes.
